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“How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Caused an Epidemic of Mental Illness”
Bullet Point Outline and Summary
- The rise of smartphone use and constant internet access among teenagers between 2010 and 2015, termed "The
Great Rewiring," is the primary cause of the recent significant increase in adolescent mental health issues. This
trend was observed globally.
- This surge in anxiety, depression, self-harm, and suicide rates disproportionately affected girls, particularly preteens, though boys also experienced increased mental health challenges.
- No other theory explains the simultaneous, widespread surge in teen mental health issues.
- Between 2010 and 2021, depression became roughly two and half times (150%) more prevalent in teens in the
United States.
- In 2020, one out of every four American teen girls had experienced a major depressive episode in the previous year.
- “Social media platforms, which are engineered for engagement, hijack social learning and drown out the culture of one's family and local community while locking children's eyes onto influencers of questionable value.”
- “Social learning occurs throughout childhood, but there may be a sensitive period for cultural learning that spans roughly ages 9 to 15. Lessons learned and identities formed in these years are likely to imprint, or stick, more than at other ages.”
- Modern "safetyism" has discouraged risk-taking, with overprotective parents and educators creating
increasingly safe environments that paradoxically prevent children from developing crucial coping skills.
- “As the Stoics and Buddhists taught long ago, happiness cannot be reached by eliminating all ‘triggers' from life; rather, happiness comes from learning to deprive external events of the power to trigger negative emotions in you.”
- “All children are by nature antifragile. Just as the immune system must be exposed to germs, and trees must be exposed to wind, children require exposure to setbacks, failures, shocks, and stumbles in order to develop strength and self-reliance. Overprotection interferes with this development and renders young people more likely to be fragile and fearful as adults.”
- “Experience, not information, is the key to emotional development. It is in unsupervised, child-led play where children best learn to tolerate bruises, handle their emotions, read other children's emotions, take turns, resolve conflicts, and play fair.”
- Reduced play opportunities have emerged from decreased school recess time and urban designs that limit
children's independent mobility and social interactions.
- These changes have pushed children toward solitary indoor activities, particularly digital entertainment like television and computer use.
- The lack of challenging, in-person play experiences has undermined children's mental and emotional development, making them more vulnerable to anxiety and depression.
- “The human brain contains two subsystems that put it into two common modes: discover mode (for approaching opportunities) and defend mode (for defending against threats). Young people born after 1995 are more likely to be stuck in defend mode, compared to those born earlier. They are on permanent alert for threats, rather than being hungry for new experiences. They are anxious.”
- Four foundational harms of social media are: social deprivation, sleep deprivation, attention fragmentation, and addiction.
- Social deprivation:
- Studies show the average teen spends more than seven hours a day on a screen in their free time.
- In-person time with friends plummeted when smartphones became common.
- Sleep deprivation:
- Studies show smartphone use caused a decline in adolescents' sleep quality and quantity.
- Sleep deprivation causes depression, anxiety, irritability, cognitive deficits, poor learning, lower grades, more accidents, and more deaths from accidents.
- Attention fragmentation:
- Smartphones fragment adolescents' attention with hundreds of daily notifications, disrupting their ability to focus and potentially hindering the development of executive function.
- Addiction:
- Social media apps, using behavioral design, create addictive pathways in children's brains, leading to dopamine-driven cravings and withdrawal symptoms like anxiety and insomnia, similar to gambling addiction.
- Internal Facebook documents revealed the company intentionally exploited teen psychology, using reward systems and novelty to keep them addicted. This tactic targeted the still-developing teenage brain, particularly its vulnerability to emotional and reward-driven behavior. As a result, many teens experience addiction-like symptoms, including anxiety, irritability, and difficulty focusing, when separated from these platforms.
- Social media disproportionately harms girls.
- Girls are more vulnerable because they are more sensitive to visual comparisons, more likely to engage in relationship/reputation aggression, more prone to sharing and absorbing emotional states, and more at risk of online harassment and exploitation.
- The platform promises connection but actually reduces relationship quality, potentially explaining the sharp increase in loneliness among girls in the early 2010s.
- “Girls who say that they spend five or more hours each weekday on social media are three times as likely to be depressed as those who report no social media time.”
- Boys faced a longer-term decline in engagement with school, work, and family.
- Boys are at greater risk than girls of “failure to launch.” They are more likely to become young adults who are “Not in Education, Employment, or Training.” Some Japanese men developed an extreme form of lifelong withdrawal to their bedrooms; they are called hikikomori.
- Video games present a nuanced impact on adolescent boys, with research showing both potential cognitive benefits and risks of addiction for a small subset of users (around 7%).
- Social media and smartphone use undermines spiritual and communal experiences by replacing meaningful interactions with fragmented, judgemental, and shallow self-focused digital engagements.
- Governments need to address adolescent mental health by correcting both online underprotection and
real-world overprotection, including updating internet safety laws and narrowing neglect regulations.
- National governments should raise the internet age of adulthood to 16 and require tech companies to implement stronger age verification and parental control features.
- State and local governments should promote children's development by encouraging free play, supporting vocational education, and creating urban environments that support adolescent growth and independence.
- Schools should go phone-free and increase opportunities for free play.
- These changes can reduce anxiety, improve social skills, and foster a sense of competence among students.
- Schools should consider expanding vocational training and hiring more male teachers to better engage boys and reverse their declining academic performance.
- Evidence shows boys do better academically when they have a male teacher. In the United States there are only 24% male K-12 teachers.
- Parents can help reduce anxiety and support children's development of confidence and competence by being
less overprotective, prioritizing real-world experiences, and encouraging independent unsupervised play.
- Try "dumb phones" at younger ages.
- Parents should try to collectively agree to delay smartphone access through initiatives like the "Wait Until 8th" pledge.
- Four suggested foundational reforms to help the anxious generation:
- No smartphones before high school
- No social media before 16
- Phone-free schools
- More unsupervised play and childhood independence
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