The author Randy Pausch, a Carnegie Mellon computer science professor, had to deliver an actual "last lecture" after being diagnosed with terminal pancreatic cancer.
Randy could have backed out of the lecture to focus on his health, but as a lifelong teacher he wanted one last chance to impart wisdom.
Despite his terminal diagnosis, he maintained a positive spirit and inspiring tone. Over several weeks, he poured himself into creating his lecture presentation.
Randy's doctor's phrasing of his diagnosis affected Randy deeply. Instead of saying “you will die in three to six months” the doctor said, “you have three to six months of good health.” This made Randy feel optimistic and reminded him to enjoy life fully, even if it's short.
Randy chose to undergo the most intensive and painful treatment to maximize his time with his family.
The main focus of his lecture was about achieving childhood dreams and living a fulfilling life.
Through Randy's personal examples, he demonstrates the power of perseverance can make many of your childhood dreams come true.
Early in his life, Randy achieved his dream of winning the biggest stuffed animal at the carnival.
Randy dreamed of being an astronaut, but his poor eyesight disqualified him, but in 2001, he finally got to experience zero gravity by conducting an experiment on NASA's "Weightless Wonder" plane.
A Star Trek fan, Randy got to meet William Shatner through Randy's work in virtual reality.
Randy's dream to be a Disney Imagineer came true when Disney hired him as a computer science consultant.
Randy credited his positive childhood and his parents' encouragement for him and his sister to be imaginative as major reasons for his fulfilling life.
Randy found teaching very rewarding. Beyond just achieving his own dreams, he also found purpose in empowering others. He hopes his work (especially, Alice, a programming education tool) will continue to help millions learn.
Much advice in life seems obvious and cliché at first, but often these platitudes persist because they contain true wisdom.
"Always work hard" seems tired, but diligence brings results. Randy got tenure early by working late Friday nights, proving hard work pays off.
"Fix the disease, not the symptom" means tackle root issues, not surface problems. Randy's friend was in debt and meditated on Tuesdays to deal with the stress. Randy suggested working a part-time job on Tuesdays instead of meditating. The friend's debt dissipated soon after taking his advice.
"Don't be afraid to fail" encourages perseverance, ambition, and bold ideas. Randy gives awards to students with the biggest failures, believing their ambition will eventually bring success.
“Receive and give honest feedback” will lead to improvement. A mentor bluntly told Randy his arrogance would hold him back. Randy appreciated the candor and tried to provide students similarly constructive criticism.
“People are more important than things” means don't be upset if your sick nephew throws up on the car seat, be worried about his health. Realizing this will lead to better relationships and happier lives.
“Be a Tigger, not an Eeyore” means being positive and looking for the good and fun in things.
“Obstacles are opportunities” means to see challenges as chances to demonstrate desire and perseverance.
“Be grateful” means showing appreciation when someone gives you their time and attention. It benefits both parties.
“Be both optimistic and realistic” suggests that if you don't balance the two, you might be disappointed. With Randy's diagnosis, he stayed upbeat but acknowledged the setbacks.
Randy reveals that the purpose of his last lecture is to be a legacy for his children. The idea that he won't be there as they grow up and he'll miss the important milestones in their lives devastates him.
Randy tried to make his last months with his family together as meaningful as possible.
He took his young sons to Disney World and swam with dolphins to create lasting memories.
Knowing his baby daughter Chloe was only 18 months old and wouldn't remember her, he wrote her letters to read later and devoted part of his lecture to expressing his love for her.
Randy doesn't want to dictate his children's paths, but help discover them. Randy suggests to pursue your own dreams, not others' expectations.
Randy hopes that through this lecture, he can help others make their childhood dreams come true.
Dreams come true from living right, not chasing them.